Showing posts with label divorce. Show all posts
Showing posts with label divorce. Show all posts

Thursday, August 12, 2010

Protect Yourself From Debt During A Divorce

By Karen Jones

When people get a divorce they are aware that any assets will need to be split, but more often than not, they do not realise that any debts t need to be split too. How these debts are split will seriously affect their future, so it is important that they obtain good legal and financial advice from the outset.

The first step in managing the issue of debts left over from the marriage, is to write a list of all your outstanding bills and assets. Also, make a comprehensive list of all of your partner's debts and assets. Pull together all documentation that you have which relates to these debts and assets. That list and the related documents will help a lawyer to give you sound advice on how to deal with them.

Take action to prevent yourself or your spouse from increasing those debts. It is far better to do this amicably, if you can. Talk to your partner about the need to protect each other and the steps that need to be taken to do this.

Any joint signatory accounts, credit or store cards should be frozen or cancelled, as soon as possible. That way more debt cannot be accrued on them. Do not leave joint accounts as they are. An amicable divorce can quickly turn nasty. Make replacing joint accounts a priority.

Freezing a joint account is not always practical, because if you suspend a joint account neither partner can draw on the funds in that account. Also, any bills that are on direct debit from that account will not be processed. A more practical approach is to ask the bank to change the account, so that withdrawals above a certain amount can only be done with both signatures.

Immediately opening separate accounts is the best option. It allows any joint accounts to be closed quickly before problems arise. New direct debits can then be set up to pay the essential bills such as the mortgage, rent and services bills from the new accounts. Bear in mind that not paying these bills is counter-productive and can lead to the loss of the home or services and adversely affect both partners credit ratings.

For credit cards and store cards, the main account holder is liable for the debts even if a former partner runs up that debt. If there is nothing owing on the card, cancel it straight away. If you owe money and can afford to pay off the debt and cancel the card, do so immediately. Failing that have the credit limit reduced to the lowest level possible. Tell the credit card company of your circumstance, most firms will give you another card immediately. Thus enabling you to cancel your existing card without the risk of being many weeks without a credit card.

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Wednesday, August 4, 2010

New Study: Is Divorce Contagious?

By Clare Westwood

Many discussions have been held recently discussing the theory that getting divorced is actually contagious. Divorces happening later in life seem to be echoing the trend the most.

Figures show that people who are aged 55 and over are now getting divorced more than ever- despite national figures beginning to fall slightly. Around one fifth of divorces occur in couples who have been married for over twenty years in total.

According to the latest figures the main reason why women file for divorce is simply due to no longer feeling satisfied within the relationship whereas men tend to be filing for divorce mainly due to better prospects being made open to them. Around two thirds of all divorces in later life are filed for by women.

Around three quarters of people who initiate late life divorce were pleased they had done so afterwards. As people are generally living longer the idea of settling for second best is becoming less acceptable. People want more out of their marriage now and they expect more from their partners too.

Many people have thought that at some time or another it has felt like everyone around them is divorcing although not until now has there been any scientific explanation to back up the theory. Scientists have recently concluded that when a divorce occurs in a family it often opens the doors to more within the family.

Friends are the most common group to fall into the contagious divorce trap. When a close friend divorces she or he may well talk of the benefits of doing so prompting so called 'grass is greener' ideas. Co-workers have been named as the second most common group.

The best relationship advice available to older couples seems to be- keeping communication levels good as well as making plenty of time for one another. Trying new hobbies and visiting new places is said to help keep relationships fresh and happy.

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